2025 DesignDash Valentine’s Day Self-Gift Guide: Because You Deserve It

Celebrate Valentine’s Day with a gift selected by the person who knows you best! Self-gifting is an act of self-care and we’re here for it! Whether that gift is a piece of art that speaks to your soul, a ritual that slows time, or a sensory indulgence that elevates the every day, these gifts will inspire a little more beauty, pleasure, and ease in your life. Go ahead, treat yourself. You’re worth it. And the best love story is the one you write for yourself.

For the Ritual Keeper

The Journey Meditation Set – Waldon

A beautiful meditation space shouldn’t have to clash with your home’s aesthetic—and with The Journey Set by Waldon, it doesn’t. Designed for both comfort and style, this minimalist set includes a lying meditation mat, a lavender-filled eye pillow, and a supportive buckwheat-filled cushion—all crafted from soft-touch Japanese fabric in a soothing neutral palette.

Perfect for small apartments or dedicated sanctuary spaces, it folds easily and tucks away when not in use. Whether you’re deepening your meditation practice, taking a quiet moment for yourself, or even using the cushion while watching TV (hello, passive hip openers), this set blends mindfulness with intentional design—because your self-care rituals deserve to be as beautiful as they are restorative.

Astier de Villatte Stockholm Incense (Set of 3) – Abask

Let Astier de Villatte’s Stockholm Incense transport you to a world of herbal remedies and wild Nordic landscapes. Developed by respected perfumer Françoise Caron, this incense captures the essence of the famous Swedish Bitters Elixir—blending wild plants, clove, lavender, vetiver, and clary sage into a grounding and invigorating fragrance.

Each stick is handcrafted on the island of Awaji, Japan, where centuries-old techniques ensure a slow, steady burn that lasts approximately 30 minutes. Whether you’re setting the mood for meditation, enhancing your home’s atmosphere, or simply indulging in the ritual of scent, this incense offers a refined, transportive experience—one that lingers long after the last wisp of smoke disappears.

For the Culinary Aesthete

Lorenzi Milano Mother of Pearl Large Caviar Set – Abask

Dining well is a sign of self-respect, so go for it! There’s something delightfully indulgent about serving yourself caviar from a mother-of-pearl dish, no special occasion necessary. This Lorenzi Milano set elevates any dining experience, whether you’re indulging in a tin of Ossetra or using the delicate spoons to stir your morning yogurt with honey. A true testament to slow, elegant living, because why shouldn’t every meal feel like a celebration?

California Heritage Extra Virgin Olive Oil – Flamingo Estate

Not all olive oil is created equal. This extra virgin olive oil from 150-year-old trees connects you to the land, to time, to the purest expression of an ingredient. Drizzle it over fresh bread, finish a bowl of pasta, or use it as a dressing for bitter greens. If your kitchen had a signature scent, let it be this: peppery, herbaceous, and rich with sunshine. Who wouldn’t want a bit of California in their kitchen?

Biodynamic, Dry-Farmed, Organic Wine – AmByth

Wine should be as alive as the land it comes from—and AmByth’s biodynamic, dry-farmed wines capture that essence. Their orange wines, in particular, are stunning—hazy, golden, with wild floral notes and a complexity that deepens with every sip. Deeply expressive, these bottles are perfect for slow evenings, long conversations, or simply savoring a glass while cooking dinner.

For the Collector of Beauty

Mid-Century Stig Lindberg Domino Vessel – 1stDibs

Some objects feel like they were made to be touched—and this Stig Lindberg ceramic is one of them. Its textured surface and striking black-and-white contrast echo the graphic lines of a James Collins painting—making it a piece that feels both timeless and deeply modern. Display it on a coffee table, a shelf, or anywhere you want a visual anchor that sparks conversation.

Andy Warhol: Love, Sex, and Desire – Taschen

A book that’s both art and artifact, this Taschen collection of Andy Warhol’s drawings captures the raw, intimate, and playful side of love. Each sketch is a reminder that art is as much about longing as it is about capturing what’s already here. For those who appreciate art that pushes boundaries while celebrating human connection, this is a must-have addition to your library.

Cuyo Medium Alpaca Silver & Black Onyx Stone Bookends – 1stDibs

No space for a full library? No problem. These black onyx and silver bookends transform even a small stack of books into an intentional reading nook. A reminder that your personal sanctuary—no matter the size—deserves thoughtful curation.

Kate Young Gemstone Ring (18k Gold Vermeil & Tiger’s Eye) – Monica Vinader

Jewelry should feel personal, and this tiger’s eye gemstone ring exudes quiet strength and warmth. A symbol of confidence and resilience, it’s the kind of everyday luxury that belongs on your hand—no occasion needed.

For the Sensory Indulgent

Theragun Mini 2.0 Percussion Massager – Desert Rose

Muscles carry tension like memories—and the Theragun Mini 2.0 is a way to let go. Compact yet powerful, this desert rose-hued tool delivers deep, percussive therapy that melts away knots and stress in minutes. Keep it in your nightstand, gym bag, or desk drawer for those moments when you need an instant reset.

Mid-Century Green Alabaster & Brass Ashtray – Chairish

Even if you don’t smoke, this mid-century alabaster ashtray is a stunning catchall for rings, incense, or loose change. Though it was crafted in the 1960s, this ashtray is a sculptural nod to old Hollywood glamour. About the size of your hand, we think it adds just the right touch of vintage charm to your space.

Yellow Sommerso Lighter by Seguso – Murano, Italy, 1970 – Chairish

If an object could flirt, this Murano glass lighter would be doing just that. Sleek, sculptural, and delightfully unnecessary in the best way, it’s a piece that elevates any setting—whether you’re lighting candles, incense, or simply admiring the way it catches the light. If you ask us, this lighter is the ultimate cool-girl collectible.

For the Deep Sleeper (or the One Who Wishes to Be)

Transdermal Patch – Sleep CBN – Mary’s Medicinals

For nights when your body wants to rest, but your mind refuses to cooperate—this CBN transdermal patch is the answer. Designed to ease you into deep, uninterrupted sleep, Mary’s CBN patches will help you wake with energy and clarity. (Just check your state’s regulations before purchasing.)

I Honor My Intuition Gold Repair Collagen Eye Mask – Knesko

These collagen-infused eye masks are a golden shield against fatigue—and such a salve after long days at work. Apply them before bed, while journaling, or during a long bath, and let their healing ingredients work their magic.

Because You Deserve to Gift Yourself

Don’t wait for someone else to spoil you this Valentine’s Day—do it yourself. The objects we choose to surround ourselves with shape the way we live and the way we love ourselves. Whether it’s a bottle of exquisite wine, a stunning design piece, or a ritual that makes the everyday feel sacred, this should be the year you embrace self-gifting as a radical act of care.